January 21, 2012

Reasons Why People Commit Suicide

      I always wonder why a person commits suicide. I keep on thinking about it and as I observed, people commits suicide because of failure. There are so many reasons why they commit suicide but if we'll look deeper at that reason, it is always still because of failure. Failure is always the reason why a person makes suicide. I formulated some reasons to make it specific why failure leads to suicide.


  • Failure to Attain the Expectations of the People You Love
              Failure in attaining what other people expects from them may cause suicide. Like some of the nursing students who failed to pass the board examination would likely to make suicide because they did not achieved what their relatives expect from them. Most of the youths who have not given what others want them to, would probably be afraid with the circumstances. 
  • Failure to Solve Secret Life's Problems
              These people may have failed with something and wants to ask for advice but don't want to tell anybody because they're afraid that somebody will know about it. Secret problems in life like pregnancy during your college days will sometimes leads to suicide. People who made these things are mostly not on the right age and don't know what to do after doing a mistake. These people don't know where to lean on. They want to seek an advice but for them, there's no other way to solve this but by committing suicide.
  • Committed a Crime 
              Failure to get what they want and would like to make revenge is also a victim of suicidal thing. I'm not referring to those people who really make crime because they just like it. But, I'm referring to those people who accidentally made a crime. Maybe something had pushed them to do it that's why they are eager to make a crime. But when the crime is already done, they will suddenly realize that they have done something wrong. At this time, their mind is in deep struggle that they would probably cut their own life. 
  • Situation in Life
              People who are thinking that they got nothing left or don't have any reasons of living will mostly commit suicide. These kinds of people are those people who failed with their business. Those people must have lots of debts and they don't know what to do anymore. And doing suicide will make their debts be paid.

Failure isn't a big deal. Why will you give up on your life because of failure? There are so many wonderful part in life you will miss. We need to live like a soldier. Even if we felt emptiness, we need to fight for it and be a winner. We need to see the positive side and look for the light to get back on the right path. We need to learn from our failures. Because this failure will makes us stronger. 

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